Encounter- Centered Couples Therapy is a treatment modality developed by internationally known psychologist Hedy Schleifer. It is based on Imago Relationship Theory, Buber's relational philosophy, Appreciative Inquiry, the Judaic concept of Tikkun, and the latest neurobiological research on memory reconsolidating and unblocking of emotional memories.

This modality guides the couple thru the three invisible connectors: the encounter, the bridge and the relational space. It then guides couples three the unraveling of the survival pattern, into a relational maturity that impacts not just the couple, but the individual, and in turn society as a whole. For more information (in vivo sessions) you may visit www.HedyYumi.com



What's next ?

Duration: 2 hours aprox

During this appointment your therapist will assess the level of commitment and readiness of both partners, teach you some basics about why we disconnect and guide you thru one or more exercises of reconnection.

Modalities :
• 2 Day Intensives

This is the MOST effective treatment we offer. It is 2 FULL days of intensive work. Prepare to dive into the most intensely beautiful connection you have ever experienced with your partner. Learn how to truly communicate with your partner, forgive mutual pain, learn how you each contribute to the disconnect, and visit your partner in his/her most beautiful, as well as vulnerable areas. Learn to love your partner in the way that he/she wants to be loved and restarts a new emotional and physical connection based not on the fears that cause us to hide from each other, or attack the other, but on our true essence which allows us to be who we truly are in harmony and connection.

• 3 hours intensive sessions

The same topics will be covered as in the 2 day INTENSIVE; however, it will be divided into 3 hour segments with meetings every week or every other week for a total of 12/14 hours.

At the Miami Couples Center we help you with

Infidelity

  • Understand the reasons for the disconnect
  • Learn to communicate about your pain
  • Learn to forgive each other
  • Re-start your relationship from a new beginning

Poor communication

  • Learn a new way of talking to each other
  • Learn how to 'visit'the world of your partner
  • Reconnect with yourself so you can better express what you are feeling
  • Replace the fighting with deep connection

Divorce

  • Learn about conflict resolution and decision making skills
  • Maintain and strengthen the affective connection with your children
  • Gain more understanding about what happened in your marriage and how each contribute to the rupture
  • Learn about the Grieving process

Sexual intimacy

  • Do you feel sexually disconnected?
  • Improve the sexual communication in your relationship
  • Get to know your sexual and intimate self
  • Identify differences and changes that may affect your sexual satisfaction

Co - parenting

  • Learn to co-create the healthiest environment for your children
  • Learn how to communicate about differences in parenting styles
  • Understand why your partner parents the way he/she does.

Pre-marital counseling

  • Learn how to grow as an individual within your relationship
  • Learn the BEST communication strategies
  • Learn how to deal with CONFLICT
  • Learn how to live in HARMONY

Diversity in the couple

  • Are you considering an open relationship?
  • Learn how to negotiate the rules
  • Do you enjoy sexual games and fantasies but don’t know how to express it?
  • Explore and navigate non-traditional sexual interactions, sexual orientation and gender diversity.

Major life changes

  • Learn how to survive the EMPTY NEST SYNDROME- TOGETHER
  • Cope with the death of a loved one in true connection with your partner
  • Cope with FINANCIAL changes in complete harmony with each other
  • Adjust as a couple to a new BABY emotional and sexually